Entry #6. Love Yourself First.

In this day in age it seems like everyone is looking for a significant other in their life. All of our peers constantly post things on social media saying "Relationship Goals" or "Bae Goals". Or always wanting someone to "Netflix and Chill" with.  It seems like there is a constant need for love and attention in our world. In the 20 years I have been on this Earth, I have learned that the most important love you can seek is for yourself.

I previously discussed a relationship I was about to pursue in my getting to know me post. Well, I guess I jumped the gun and spoke to soon because things didn't exactly work out like I thought they were going to..which is okay! I have been out of a relationship for over a year and a half so this new thing recently was something I was very hesitant about. I just haven't felt that i am in a position to be with somebody else at this point in my life. 

Relationships are crazy. They bring out so much emotion and can be a lot to handle at times. When you choose to love and pursue someone, a lot of your time and feelings go into that individual. You most likely spend hours with them, plan dinners and dates with them,  and travel or create memories with one another.  You build a bond between the two of you that can only be felt and experienced together. 

Relationships can bring you the most happiness and greatest blessings around. However, they can also cause some painful heartbreaks and sadness. It is all a learning experience and is meant to happen in order to find the one significant other that you are destined to be with. You should never settled for less than you deserve and most importantly, do not love until you are ready. 

Learn to LOVE YOURSELF. This is your life, you are the star of the show and make all of the calls for you; before looking for a soul mate, find yourself. Understand your feelings more and vent them in some kind of way, whether it is to another person, in a journal or through an electronic blog. Develop your physique the way you dream it to be by dedicating more time to healthy eating and working out. Sign up for school or other classes to educate yourself and expand your knowledge on all different subjects. Learn a new talent, hobby, or participate in an activity you never have involved yourself in before. There is so much to do with yourself in this world and so many different paths to take. 

It doesn't matter what is being posted on Twitter or Facebook about ideal relationships and love goals.  There is no rush to finding a significant other. After all- I always heard that you shouldn't have to look for your destined partner, they will find their way to you in this life. Everything works out for a specific reason and you should always be ready and well prepared when deciding to get into a relationship. Discovering and loving yourself first is what it all comes down too, my friends. You don't want to risk stressing yourself out and having certain insecurities or trust issues come out because you simply weren't ready yet. You are the most important. :)

Happy blogging!